An open letter to blogger outreach email senders

Published by Nela Dunato on in Marketing, Personal

I’m not a super popular blogger, but I get plenty of email pitches from people who want me to link to their stuff, or publish their guest post (even though I clearly state in multiple places, including my contact page, that I don’t accept them). I can only imagine what it’s like for people whose readership is much bigger.

An open letter to blogger outreach email senders

Getting one such email isn’t a big deal. After you’ve received two or three outreach emails, you start noticing a pattern. You realize you’re just one of hundreds or thousands of people this person is contacting, and that they don’t give a rat’s ass about “adding value” to your readers as they claim. They just want to increase their own Google search rankings, and you’re nothing to them but a step to reach that goal.

After receiving yet another email of that kind, I created this little chart so that you can quickly decipher what it means:

Blogger outreach emails: what they really mean

If you’ve recognized your own emails in this chart, I’m really glad you’re here. I’ll be frank. I don’t like what you’re doing. You and I both know that the “value” you’re offering to bloggers is purely self-serving. There is no way you can pitch me so that I would accept it.

But maybe there’s hope for other people. Who knows, maybe some bloggers are desperate to link to other websites. If I were to do any blogger outreach email campaigns, here’s how I would approach it.

Be more direct in your subject line

Your “quick question” is far from being the only one in my inbox. Just say what you want so I can prioritize accordingly.

Do more research

Read more than one blog post thoroughly, so you get a sense of the blogger’s style and philosophy. Also do read their contact page or their FAQ page because they might simply not accept guest post submissions, sponsored posts, placed links etc. (I don’t.)

Be more personal in your introduction, and go beyond the “I loved this first post I’ve stumbled into”. Most of the time people ask to place their link in a post they haven’t even read, and clearly don’t understand the context. I can tell if you’ve read the post or not!

To quote Captain Awkward:

Please stop pretending that you read the blog and have somehow targeted this to be relevant; it’s embarrassing for both of us.

Show that you’ve put in some real effort, and not just plugged scraped data into a template. And while we’re at it…

Don’t use a template

Bloggers are getting dozens of these form emails every month, and we can spot the pattern pretty easily. I wonder which online marketing guru gave you this template? I’d like to have a word with them.

Never assume – ask

Bloggers know their own readers much better than you ever can. They communicate with them through comments, email and social media every single day, and publish content in response to questions they receive. Acknowledge that and ask them if they think their readers would enjoy your content.

If you see a comment someone has left that your content is addressing, you can use that as “proof” that this information will increase the value of the blogger’s content. If you can’t do that, leave your assumptions at the door.

When someone tells me they think my readers would love something, it gives a really bad first impression. Let me be the judge.

What’s in it for me?

“Your readers will love it.”

No, what’s in it for me? Sending my readers to another person’s website and giving you Google link juice is not in my best interest, especially if we’re competing for the same keywords. I’ve been around the block (since 2003, if you can believe it) and I understand very well how SEO and link building works.

Someone once asked me to link to their “roundup of 10 top graphic design companies”. Dude, if I’m not on that list, I’m not promoting it. Another time a marketer working for UpWork wanted me to link to their logo designer directory. Hello? They didn’t even bother to check what my website is about. I am a graphic designer, and I’m running a business here. Why would I promote other designers?

If I’m going to send people away from my own website, I better have a very good reason.

Your content would have to offer something I’m not able to provide, and make me look good.

A post that breaks down relevant scientific research comes to mind, since I’m too lazy to do that on my own. If you give me a really good verifiable reference that backs up some of my claims, damn right I’ll link to it – it gives me a boost of credibility in front of my readers and potential clients. Linking to your opinion piece, a beginner’s guide, or a product you sell? I have absolutely no incentive to promote that.

People are selfish. Give them what they want. At the very least, ask them what they want in return for doing you a favor. Let’s not kid ourselves here, they are doing you a favor by sharing your content. If you can’t think of a tangible way to thank them, you have no business asking for a favor in the first place. (Sharing my post to your fake Twitter followers doesn’t cut it.)

But that’s too much work!

Yes. Giving value is work. Building relationships is work. You can’t automate your way to stardom, no matter what the guru who sold you that template has told you.

Stop trying to game the system in such a cheap and crass way.
The basic rule of reciprocity will take you further, faster.


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5 responses to “An open letter to blogger outreach email senders”

  1. Really amazing article Nela! You are on the point when it comes to blogger’s personal interests. No one is going to do anything for free. You propose a more direct approach but, do you think it would drive away some of your potential contacts?

  2. Hey Nikolay, thanks for your comment – I’m glad you’ve enjoyed it :)

    My approach to life, business, art etc. is not very subtle. I’m fine with driving away some opportunities in order to reach those that are better aligned with my values. It’s possible that some people will be driven away by this. In my opinion, those were not meant to be, anyway.

  3. Thanks for this article Nela! I totally understand your point. Sometimes, outreach campaigns can be too automated and insincere. I’m just curious, what do you think of emails with a casual tone of writing? like having emojis on the message. Does that sound too informal in a bad way?

  4. Hello, Emmerey :)
    I don’t care either way if the text is more formal, or informal. Everyone has their own natural voice that they use to write emails and forcing any particular style is never a good idea.

    A few years ago people started sending newsletters with very informal (and not at all informative) subject lines to appear more “personal” and get noticed. Perhaps it worked until people caught onto it and are no longer fooled.

    Whatever you do just to *appear* one way or another is going to stop working as soon as everyone else catches on, too. And in the marketing industry, news travels fast.

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